The Twelve Days of Christmas – Divorce Edition – Day 11

“On the eleventh day of Christmas, my true love gave to me….eleven pipers piping.” I’m going to let you in on a little secret - one of the best parts of getting divorced is that you get to be in charge of you again; you don’t have to answer to your ex-factor anymore; you don’t have to worry about their judgments or feelings about how you live your life. Yet, so many people fail to enjoy the fruits of their hard-earned labor. So stop following your own “pied piper”. You won’t be able to convince your ex that you’re this great person, or that your perspective is right, or any of the things. Stop trying and make your own way instead. You’ve earned it.