The Twelve Days of Christmas – Divorce Edition – Day 7

“On the seventh day of Christmas, my true love gave to me….seven swans a swimming.” One of the biggest lies you’ll hear during your divorce/custody drama will originate from your own mind. Anxiety is a cunning liar. It will tell you that you MUST solve every single contingency, every “what if”, every issue before it even occurs. The problem is - that’s not possible in normal life, let alone in the throes of litigation. Worrying and stressing won’t do anything except ruin your mental health and drive everyone around you insane. The truth is - all you can really do is carefully consider your options and then do the next right thing; not all problems solved for all time.